Are We Painting Ourselves and Others Into a Corner?

Heather Bolen
16 min readAug 11, 2021

The Importance Of Holding Opposing Stories In Our Heads

Sofonisba Anguissola, Self-Portrait at the Easel Painting a Devotional Panel,” 1556 (Wikimedia Commons)

This summer, a Vanity Fair headline about the 2019 disappearance of Jennifer Farber caught my eye, lifting the veil anew on a stranger’s ghost story.

The story of Ms. Farber has haunted me from the get-go, despite the fact that I’m not especially voyeuristic in this regard. I don’t watch true…

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Heather Bolen

Writer, educator, guide. Founder of Travel & Culture Salon, a collection of curated online course creations, gifts + interviews. www.travelandculturesalon.com